Friday, January 8, 2010

Mother-In-Law Woes - Response

"I am a very keep it real person so I hope this helps you. Stop pussy footing around your mother in law and CONFRONT her. Ask her to go to have coffee with you and discuss how you feel. It does not have to be in a threatening/ugly way at all. You can be very polite yet stern with her. Thank her for allowing you all to stay with her but let her know where you draw the line as a wife, mother, and woman! She is simply BULLYING you and you are allowing it. When you confront a bully, you take their power and you will see a difference in how she treats you. She sees you as a punk now because you allow her to talk to you in any kind of way. Nip in the bud like a grown ass woman should and she will respect you for it."