CAT-CHOO

Due to a relationship that ended poorly, I found myself in need of a place to stay. A close girlfriend of mine offered to let me stay with her, temporarily of course. Well I have been here for about 45 days. Last week she came home with a kitten. Now, we have been friends for years. She knows I am highly allergic to cats. Do you think she is trying to tell me something? I'm afriad that if I ask one of our friends they will go back and tell her. If that's not her intention, I don't want to start trouble. I guess I could have said something to her when she brought the cat home, but I am the guest. I can't function on allergy pills. They make me so drowsy. What would you do?

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Reply - Her Woes Drive Me Crazy

"I wouldn't recommend you to stop all communication with her. Change your perspective. Maybe you were placed there to be that support and counsel that she needs.... PERIOD. She has so many issues that she is not capable of supporting you in that same manor. Help your sister out and seek your support elsewhere. It's nice to be needed."

Her Woes Drive Me Crazy

I have a friend who ALWAYS has a problem. I can call her in the best of moods and she has something to complain about. I listen as always but wouldn't you know it. Whenever I have a problem she doesn't have time to listen or she minimizes my problem and starts talking about her own. I am ready to call it quits with her but I don't want to be a bad friend. I feel selfish. How do I handle this?


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