Tuesday, May 17, 2011

I Had To Go Madea On Them


So this past weekend I volunteered to work the admissions desk at my brother-in-law's AAU tournament. He hosted 33 teams. Just imagine how many people passed through the doors between players, coaches, refs, parents and other guests. I spent 12 hours on Saturday and 10 hours on Sunday dealing with the public. I have a new found respect for people who do front office work.
On Saturday roughly 70% of the people were either rude or tried to sneak into the game without paying. I held my composure from 8 am to about 4 pm. Finally my cup had run over and out poured the "stereotypical" attitude. I had promised myself I wouldn't allow anyone to take me there. But I had a weak moment. Yes people were rude, belligerent and nasty but I know better. Maybe I should have gotten up from the desk and walked away for a moment but we really didn't have enough hands on deck to cover. So when this man refused to pay and literally bum rushed the door, forcefully pushing a lady out of the way, I lost it. I started yelling and brought unnecessary attention to myself. I was tired of people speaking to me and treating me any kind of way. On went the gorilla suit. It got real ugly. "I'M TIRED OF YOU PEOPLE AND YOUR FUNKY NASTY ATTITUDES. I DON'T HAVE ANY DAMN CHILDREN PLAYING IN THIS TOURNAMENT. I DON'T EVEN REALLY CARE FOR BASKETBALL. I AM VOLUNTEERING MY TIME AND I WILL NOT PUT UP WITH ANYMORE. Then of course I let it be known that I would never work a tournament again.
Afterwards I was angry with myself. Like my Granny says, "You don't have to be a fool because you meet a fool." I know there are ways to get my point across without blowing my top. It is something I consciously work on. Your point is lost in chaos when you flip your lid. Even if you're "in the right." I had to apologize to myself. I disappointed myself by allowing others to get to me. There is no real reason to go ballistic.
On Sunday things were better. People were still rude and were still trying to sneak in but not nearly in the numbers they did the previous day. GOD gives me joy everyday. GOD knows what to do to show me the light. HE will use whomever HE can to teach me a lesson. A few parents, coaches and referees thanked me for a job well done. One coach even gave me an encouraging talk. He was subtle with it. He knew what he was doing and by the time he finished talking to me I was making plans for next year's tourny. I have great ideas to implement. Ideas that help the event run smoothly and efficiently.
So what is the point of this story you ask? Try to keep your cool. Never let them see you sweat. But you will make mistakes and when you do be prepared to ask for forgiveness. Please be patient with me. GOD is not through with me yet.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Its Okay If We're Different


Is it alright if something trivial to you is serious to me? Is it okay if I dislike something you love? Is it fine if I do it my way and you do it yours? Do you mind if I don't ever want to do that but it's your favorite thing to do?

Actually I don't even know why I am asking these questions. Regardless of your answer I am going to do, say, act and feel how I want to as long as I do not infringe on someone's rights or hurt somebody's feelings.

It doesn't make much since for me to feel uncomfortable so that you won't. It doesn't make much since for me to try to handle something the way you would because it makes you feel better. Something we all have to understand is DIFFERENT is okay. I've said that before and will continue to. Everyday in every way I see people bashing each other over a difference of opinion. Opinions that aren't even harmful, just different.

You like eggs. I think they are disgusting. But I don't think you're weird because you like them. So stop looking at me like I'm crazy because I don't. I like talking about GOD and my faith. You don't. that is fine with me. Stop saying I'm forcing my GOD on you. I am not. I also like to discuss books, music, sports, politics and my favorite tv shows. You don't think I'm pushy when I say I like Reality TV. So why are you bothered when I say I love the LORD? I voted for Obama. You didn't. It's okay. We can still get along. I have close relationships with people who voted for McCain (and yes they are black). No need for us to be at each others' throats about it.

For the most part when a topic brings up a healthy debate I welcome it. It stimulates my intellectual juices. It opens my mind. However there are times when I disagree or simply handle things differently and do not want to "explain" myself.

I don't have to understand everything about you. And you most certainly do not have to understand everything about me. I will NEVER tolerate you. I don't want you to ever tolerate me. I WILL forever appreciate you and I hope you will appreciate me. Me, my flaws, and differences of opinion.

I am invited to my cousin's baby shower this weekend. There is a 90% chance I will NOT attend. People do not understand why and they're looking for a reason. I've tried to explain myself but that hasn't always worked. So I am done with trying to help you understand me. Just appreciate that my behavior is not malicious. My absence is not an indication of my wishing ill will toward you.

I do not attend children's birthday parties. It is not up for debate. We don't need to sit and talk about it. This is one of those time you need not worry about understanding me. Just appreciate that I cope with things differently than you do. And guess what? That's ok.


More on bullying...

One bully case after another. HEY grown people if you seriously want the children to stop bullying, try setting an example. Children learn their communication and coping skills by watching us. Stop bashing each other, adults. Republicans stop bashing democrats. Democrats stop bashing republicans. Whites stop bullying blacks. Blacks stop bullying whites. Christians stop harassing Muslims. Muslims stop harassing Christians. Fat and skinny people, leave each other alone. Damn! We are all family. We are all brothers and sisters. We coexist on Earth. This planet is OUR home. Middletown is my city. I share it with many people. We can all work for the greater good of mankind through various methods. I go to church regularly and pray for as many people as i can remember. She doesn't go to church but she recycles. He doesn't go to church or recycle but he is a big brother. I'm not mad at the 2 who do not go to church. It's not my place to judge them. What I see is 3 people working for the greater good of the community. No need to discuss what activity is more important. We do what we can when we can. No explanation needed.

Be nice to you neighbors. Be nice to the mail carrier. Be nice to the cashier. Be nice to the waitress. Be nice to your coworker. Be nice to you classmate. Be kind to your teacher. Honor your parents. Praise the LORD. Stop teaching your children that being nice goes hand in hand with weakness. When we grown folks stop bullying each other our children will get the hint. And don't wait for someone else to start. YOU take the initiative. I DARE YOU.

Friday, February 18, 2011

Continued

ooh Praise GOD. Do you know that He is faithful. Yes LORD.Thank You Jesus. Hallelujah Father. Thank you.Thank you Thank you. I just wanna praise you all night. It fill me with joy to say thank you LORD.
HE has been good to me. HE has protected me. I am Holy Ghost filled and want the world to know that Jesus Christ is my Savior. He loves me. I love Him because He loves me. Oh magnify the LORD for He is worthy to be praise. I want to fall on my knees with the angles and worship the Father. Thank you Father.
HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH!
feel it. feel our Father's love for us. He wants you to be happy. Reap the harvest HE promised you. It is yours. Believe that. No man has dominion over you. GOD is full of mercy and love and forgiveness. Yours for the taking. Yes Father thank you.
I can't stop. He hasn't stopped on me and never will
1 major surgery / chemo
2 brain aneurysm
3 major surgery / chemo
4 major surgery (2 extra organs removed)
5 major surgery (3 extra organs removed)
6 heart attack
7 Death of my best friend, my grandfathers and 2 wks ago my brother
8 no employment since the heart attack in 2009
HE HAS NOT LEFT MY SIDE. BEEN THERE EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.
the Holy Spirit caught a hold of me and let loose. well after my experience I opened Our Daily Bread to see what scripture to read. Psalm 89:1-8 was listed.
I will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever; with my mouth will I make known Your faithfulness to all generations. Psalm 89:1

HOLY GHOST FILLED MOMENT


I WANT ALL ME SISTAS TO BE BLESSED. THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR WILL. PRAISE YOU LORD FOR YOUR FAVOR. HALLELUJAH LORD FOR OUR SAVIOR. SO GLAD TO HAVE A HOLY GHOST FILLED MOMENT RIGHT HERE ON FACEBOOK FOR EVERYONE TO SEE.

OH LORD YOU ARE SO VERY WORTHY TO BE PRAISE. YES JESUS I GIVE YOU HONOR. YES FATHER I MAGNIFY YOU. ALL HONOR AND WORSHIP TO YOU MIGHTY KING OF KINGS.

I THANK YOU AND I PRAISE YOU AND I SURRENDER MY WILL TO YOU FATHER. THANK YOU FOR LOVE, PEACE, UNDERSTANDING, PATIENCE, FORGIVENESS, MERCY, AND TRUTH.

OH FATHER MY I CONTINUE TO SING YOUR PRAISES NEVER CEASING. I AM SO PROUD TO BE CALLED A CHILD OF GOD. SO EXCITED TO BE IN YOUR FAVOR. SO PRIVILEGED TO FOLLOW YOU FOOTSTEPS.

GUIDE ME FATHER. I WILL FOLLOW. I SURRENDER ALL, ALL TO YOU MY PRECIOUS SAVIOR. I WANT YOUR WILL FOR MY LIFE. YOUR COMPLETE WILL FATHER. NEVER WILL YOU LEAD ME ASTRAY. I AM IN GOOD HANDS WITH YOU. WITH YOU NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
LORD I LEARNED TO TELL MY PROBLEMS ABOUT YOU. I HAVE LEARN TO TELL FRIENDS WITH PROBLEMS ABOUT YOU. THEY WILL COME WHEN THEY ARE READY.

I AM READY TO WORK FOR YOU TODAY LORD RIGHT NOW. JUST LEAD THE WAY.SET A SPECIFIC PATH BEFORE ME. I AM AT THE READY.

I WANT TO DO YOUR WORK AND I WANT TO BE USED BY YOU TO BLESS OTHERS. I WANT TO SHARE YOU WITH OTHERS. I WANT THEM TO KNOW HOW GLORIOUS, MAGNIFICENT AND LOVING YOU ARE.

YOU ARE SO FAITHFUL LORD. YOU ENSURED THAT I WOULD HAVE ALL THAT I NEED 2000 YEARS AGO. THANK YOU LORD. THANK YOU LORD. THANK YOU LORD.

THANK YOU FOR CARRYING MY BURDEN WHEN IT WAS TOO HEAVY FOR ME TO HANDLE. THANK YOU FOR CARRYING ME WHEN I COULD NOT CARRY MYSELF. THANK YOU LORD FOR SEEING ME THROUGH CHEMO HALLELUJAH! THANK YOU LORD FOR SEEING MY THROUGH A BRAIN ANEURYSM, YES LORD, YES LORD. THANK YOU FOR LAYING YOUR HAND ON MY HEART AND PROTECTING IT AS IT TRIED SO VERY HARD TO STOP ON ME. THANK YOU FATHER. THANK YOU MY KING. THANK YOU FOR MY LIFE. THANK YOU FOR STANDING OVER ME DURING 4 MAJOR SURGERIES AND ENSURING I CAME THROUGH.

OH LORD JESUS. YES. THANK YOU. HALLELUJAH FATHER. PRAISE YOU FATHER. YES LORD. THANK YOU LORD. YOU LOVE ME, YOU PROTECT ME, YOU CARRY ME, YOU PROVIDE FOR ME. YES LORD. THANK YOU JESUS, HALLELUJAH! YES
AMEN AMEN AMEN

Faithful Is Our God - Hezekiah Walker

FAITHFUL, FAITHFUL, FAITHFUL IS OUT GOD

I'M REAPING THE HARVEST GOD PROMISED

TAKE BACK WHAT THE DEVIL STOLE FROM ME

AND I REJOICE TODAY

FOR I SHALL RECOVER IT ALL

HOLY HOLY HOLY IS OUT GOD

I'M REAPING THE HARVEST GOD PROMISED

TAKE BACK WHAT THE DEVIL STOLE FROM ME

AND I REJOICE TODAY

FOR I SHALL RECOVER IT ALL

JESUS JESUS JESUS IS OUR GOD

I'M REAPING THE HARVEST GOD PROMISED

TAKE BACK WHAT THE DEVIL STOLE FROM ME

AND I REJOICE TODAY

FOR I SHALL RECOVER IT ALL


Monday, February 7, 2011

"But what about you?" he asked? "Who do you say I am?" Matthew 16:15 NIV

When Jesus was on the cross, I, Andrea D. Kelly, was on His mind.


"But what about you?" he asked? "Who do you say I am?" Matthew 16:15 NIV


Yesterday my pastor anchored his sermon with that scritpure and it was a profound message. Jesus asked Peter who the people said He was, then He asked Peterl directly. After listening I realized that I know who Jesus Christ is, what He means to and what He did for me. I make it my business to thank Him everyday. Still I have a long way to go to show my aprreciation for Christ. I have to remind myself regularly what He did for me. So I have decided to rephrase Isaiah 53:2-8 NIV. You can read it below. In addition I advise you to read Matthew 16:13-19. Answer the question Jesus asked Peter. Then read Isaiah 53:2-8 as it was originally written. It is my pray that we all can provide the correct answer to Jesus's question and then live our lives righteously.


My Personalization of Isaiah 53:2-8 NIV


Jesus has no beauty or majesty to attrack

me to him,

nothing in Jesus' appearance that I

should desire him.

Jesus was despised and rejected by men,

a man of sorrow, and familiar with

suffering.

Like one from whom men hide their

faces

Jesus was despised and I esteemed

him not.

Surely Jesus took up my infirmities

and carried my sorrows,

yet I considered him stricken by GOD,

smitten by Him and afflicted.

But Jesus was pierced for my

transgressions,

Jesus was crushed for my iniquities;

the punishment that brought me peace

was upon Jesus,

and by his wounds I am healed.

I, like sheep, have gone astray,

I have turned to my own way;

and the Lord has laid on Jesus

the iniquity of me.

Jesus was oppressed and afflicted,

yet he did not open his mouth;

Jesus was led like a lamb to the slaughter,

as a sheep before her shearers

is silent,

so Jesus did not open his mouth.

By oppression and judgment Jesus was

taken away.

And who can speak for his

descendants?

For Jesus was cut off from the land of the

living;

for my trangressions

Jesus was stricken.


Please, if you do not understand what you just read, find a clergyman and ask for an interpretation. It is imoprtant for us all.

I Am A Coward

I had an intriguing conversation with one of my best friends last night. We talked in depth about GOD and blessings and how we block our own blessings. In both our cases a major factor is fear. I do not live to my full potential. I know that I can do more to please GOD. I do not concern myself with what society or even those close to me feel I should do with my life. However I am always asking GOD to use me as a vessel to bless people. And while I do see it happening regularly, it's on a small scale.

I want to shout my testimony from a mountain top. I want to spread the Word from corner to corner. But my own cowardice stops me. My testimony is filled with highs that have reached a zenith point and lows that seems to have reached the depths of hell. Through it all I have bounced back and only by the grace of GOD. This needs to be shared. What if there is someone out there who can be stopped from killing someone or committing suicide? What if someone can come out of depression or stop abusing children? What if someone can stop addictive behavior or stop being unfaithful? Most importantly, what if someone finds Jesus Christ and comes to the realization that He died to save them, to wipe their slate clean, to provide them with eternal life?

GOD has the power to do all of the above and then add more blessings to these people's lives. He uses people like me who have varied experiences and who have witnessed His works. Yet and still I sit on what I know. I go back and forth with whether or not to pursue what I think I should do.

I must overcome my fear. I must put my cowardly ways aside. I must look forward and stop looking behind. I am liable to walk into a wall if I keep looking back and allowing what's behind me to hold my focus. (read Luke 9:51)

So many people walk around with this same fear. Talk with GOD. Pray. Read the Word. Find out what His will is for your life.Then pursue it vigorously. I am going to take my own advise. I will start with a pray. I will ask GOD to make my path clear, to make it all right or all wrong, to make it unambiguous. Then I will work on building courage. I know that if I am following GOD's will and not my own, if I am being righteous and not self righteous, I cannot fail and that fear is silly.

Pray for me. Pray for you. Thank you.

BLACK HISTORY MONTH WEEK 2


This is a story of a little boy name Theo who woke up one morning and asked his mother, Hey Ma, what if there were no Black people in the world?

Well his mother thought about that for a moment, and said, "Son, follow me around today and lets just see what it would be like if there were no Black people in the world. Now go get dressed and we will get started.

Theo ran to his room to put on his clothes. His mother took one look at him and said, "Son, I must iron your clothes. Why are they so wrinkled?"

But when she reached for the ironing board it was no longer there. You see, Sarah Boone, a black woman, invented the ironing board

Well you will just have to go wrinkled today she said, now go put on your shoes. But Theo couldn't do this either. You see, Jan E. Matzelinger, a black man, invented the shoe lasting machine.

"Oh well," she said, "at least go and do something to your hair." Theo ran in his room to comb his hair, but the comb was not there. "

You see, a black man by the name of Walter Sammons, invented the comb.

Theo figured since he couldn't comb his hair he would just brush his hair, but the brush was gone. a black female by the name of Lydia O. Newman, invented the brush.

Well, this was a sight. Theo had no shoes, wrinkled clothes, his hair was a mess, even Mom's hair was a mess, because she didn't have the hair care inventions of Madam C.J. Walker! The Guinness Book of Records cites Madam CJ Walker as the first female who became a millionaire by her own achievements.

"Well Let's do our chores around the house, and then take a trip to the grocery store." Mom said.

You sweep the floor and I will go wash some clothes. Theo swept and swept and swept. When he reached for the dustpan, it was not there. You see, Lloyd P. Ray, a black man, invented the dustpan.

So he swept his pile of dirt over in the corner and left it there. He then decided to mop the floor, but the mop was gone. You see the mop was also invented by a black man. His name is Thomas W. Stewart.

Ugh! Theo grunted in frustration. "Mom, I'm not having any luck." He yelled.

"Well son," she said, "let me finish washing these clothes and we will prepare a list for the grocery store."

When the wash finished, she went to place the clothes in the dryer but....the dryer was no longer there. You see, George T. Samon, a black man, invented the clothes dryer.

Theo and his mom were both becoming frustrated. 'Let's just make the grocery list. Go get a pencil and some paper to prepare the list for the market." Mom instructed.

Theo ran for the paper and pencil but noticed the pencil lead was broken. Well, he was out of luck because John Love, a black man, invented the pencil sharpener.

"Don't worry we can just use a pen." Mom said. His mom reached for a pen, but it was not there because William Purvis, black man, invented the fountain pen. As a matter of fact, They couldn't type it because Lee Burridge invented the type writing machine, even if they needed some other type of newspaper they would be out of luck because W. A. Lovette invented the advanced printing press.These were both black men.

Theo had an idea "Maybe we will be better off if we get out of the house"

So Theo and his mother decided to head out to the market. Well, when Theo opened the door he noticed the grass was as high as he was tall. You see, the lawn mower was invented by black man by the name of John Burr.

They raised their legs high to step through the tall grass and made their way over to the car. They got in and put on their seatbelts but the car just wouldn't go. You see, Joseph Gammel invented the supercharge system for internal combustion engines and Richard Spikes invented the automatic gear shift , both of them are black men.

Well, it was getting late, so they walked to the market. On the way they noticed that the few cars that were moving were running into each other and having wrecks because there were no traffic signals. You see, Garrett A. Morgan, a black man invented the traffic light.

Finally they made it to the market, got their groceries and returned home. Just when they were about to put away the milk, eggs and butter, they noticed the refrigerator was missing. You see John Standard, a black man, invented the refrigerator. They had no choice but to just leave the food on the counter.

By this time, Theo noticed he was getting mighty cold. "Mom, can you turn up the heat? Why is it so cold in here?" You See, Alice Parker, a black female, invented the heating furnace so they didn't have heat. Even in the summer time they would have been out of luck because Frederick Jones, a black man, invented the air conditioner.

It was almost time for Theo's father to arrive home. He appeared to be taking longer than usual. He usually took the elevator from his office on the 20th floor, but there was no elevator because it was invented by Alexander Miles, a black man.

He also usually dropped off the office mail at a near by mailbox, but it was no longer there because Philip Downing, invented the letter drop mailbox and William Barry invented the postmarking and canceling machine, both black men.

See, he usually took the bus. But there was no bus, because it's precursor was the electric trolley, invented by another black man, Elbert R. Robinson.

Theo and his mother sat at the kitchen table with their head in their hands. When the father arrived he asked, "Why are you sitting in the dark?" Why? You See Lewis Howard Latimer, a black man, invented the filament within the light bulb.

Theo quickly learned what it would be like if there were no black people in the world. "It's been a long day dad" Theo sighed. Yes son it has. but I so have some good news Grandma is doing better! Due to Charles Drew a black scientist who found a way to perserve and store blood which led to the opening of the world's first blood bank, she was able to have a successful blood transfusion a few days ago.

and thanks to Dr. Daniel Hale Williams a black doctor, who performed the first open heart surgery. She has been scheduled to get a new heart soon.

Well dad Theo began, I am thankful for the dream that Martin Luther King had, bc this day has been one big nightmare. Theo's dad smiled.